So, I’ve been sitting here with my laptop open for quite a while now. I’ve finished my Bible study. I’ve responded to several student emails. I’ve looked at and managed my calendar for the week. But I’m not feeling inspired to write anything.
I have this problem. I want to be authentic — to not sound cheesy, or preachy, or packaged in any way. I want what comes out of my fingers to be a genuine reflection of where I’m at. And, to be honest, ‘where I’m at’ is in my pajamas, sitting on a futon in my office, covered in warmed flaxseed pillows with my dog squished up next to me. It’s a pretty good life, actually, but it’s not much to write about.
Yet, I’ve committed to writing more. So, I’m going to write. And then, for the most part, I’m going to spend my day being still.
I still struggle with this — with stillness, that is. In my former life, I didn’t have very many times of stillness. Days, weeks, months, and years, were full of activity — of doing, going, achieving, completing, accomplishing. So, sitting here halfway through a Monday morning , still dressed in the same clothes I slept in with no intention of changing anytime soon, still seems odd.
I’m telling you, my Missouri friends would not recognize me. I had a colleague who used to say, “I wish I understood how you get so much done.” Me, too, friend, me, too. I’ve said before on this blog how by this time of day in my former life I would’ve showered, put dinner in the crock pot, transported three or four kids to their various schools, tidied my classroom, reviewed my lesson plans, met with a family and their child to craft an educational contract, set up an appointment to observe a teacher, tracked down two delinquent students in the hallway, taught one section of composition, attended chapel, and managed any number of other administrative tasks.
Today? I’ve played my turn in about ten games of Words with Friends, started a load of laundry, finished last night’s dishes, drank some tea and a smoothie, heated some flaxseed pillows, sat down next to my dog, completed my Bible study, and sent some emails.
The rest of my day includes some lesson planning for the upcoming semester and editing a short paper for a student. Period. Ok, fine, I will try to do some Pilates. But seriously, I’m not doing anything else. I’m not leaving the house. At all.
And why am I struggling with this? This is the new reality that was Hand-crafted for me. This is the Next Chapter I’ve been blessed with. It’s not boring. It’s not unsatisfying. In fact, it is exactly what the Doctor ordered to put me back on the path to health.
Yet the do-er in my still sometimes feels like I should be accomplishing something, checking more off my list, making a difference, proving my worth. There it is. Something in me (and in you?) tells me that I don’t have worth unless I have accomplished something in my day. My value is in direct proportion to all the things I have managed to complete. But ladies and gentlemen, that is a lie. It’s a lie that I chose to believe for a long time. And I believed it really well. So well that I denied myself the opportunity to be still and recover from all the doing. So, really, (wink, wink) I’m making up for lost time.
Do yourself a favor today. Remind yourself that your worth is not based on what you do. It is based on Whose you are. You have been purchased at a great price. Your value is unfathomable. Sit down for a minute and fathom that. Drink it in for a moment while you are being still.
I Corinthians 6:19-20
Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price.Therefore honor God with your bodies.
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Thank you for writing this, Kristin. I’m only one of many that you just described as you wrote about yourself. God bless you with a healing and restful day. Rest in Him.
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