I got home at 2:30 am today. That’s a real time. I left the Washtenaw County Courthouse around 2:15 and drove through a mostly abandoned Ann Arbor, past the medical center, and the VA. I was less than a mile from home, near Gallup Park, when I thought, “Oh, I better watch for deer—” and as I said it, one appeared, as my son would say, “at eleven o’clock.” I stopped in the middle of the road, met eyes with the critter, and nodded for him to go ahead and cross. I swear he nodded back and then sprang across the road in front of me.
After over seven hours of chatting with the two agents from the Associated Press, entering tallies into my iPhone app, and playing countless rounds of CandyCrush (yes, I re-installed that dumb game on my phone!), I was not quite ready for sleep. So I plunked down on the couch and read.
A friend recently loaned me a book called, Still Alice, which chronicles the life of a woman about my age who is diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s. It is told from her point of view from before the diagnosis until she no longer recognizes the people in her family or even herself. I read and I cried. I’m not sure what touched me more, her sense of loss, or the ways that her family learned to love and care for her as she became something that she had never been.
Around 4:30am, with only about thirteen pages left, I decided I was too drained to finish the book, so I crawled into bed and knocked out. I woke up of my own volition around 11. Chester may have been willing me awake, because when I stirred, he leapt to his feet and pleaded with me to take him outside. Apparently I understand deer and golden retrievers.
I took him out, went back to the couch, tried some more to conquer Candy Crush and pushed away thoughts of eating, making tea, blogging, and working out. I wasn’t sure I would do much at all today. My body ached and I was tired. I didn’t feel hungry and I wasn’t even really interested in tea. Maybe I would just lose the day to couch-dom.
I hadn’t been in my position long when the front door opened. My husband entered and found me looking, I’m sure, pathetic in my jammies with a glazed look on my face. “I thought you might be up. Can I make you some lunch?”
“I guess I should eat something.”
“Can I make you some tea, too?”
“I’ll come join you in the kitchen. Maybe if I washed the dishes my hands would feel better.”
He sautéed onions and spinach in butter and stirred in scrambled eggs, just how I like them. I washed dishes and told him about my night downtown. We ate and laughed together and by the time he left I was ready to go back to my book, to think about driving to the gym, and to sit for a few minutes at my computer to blog.
It’s not lost on me — the connection I am making between my life and the book. I am a someone I have never been. Sometimes I don’t recognize myself. Yet, I have a husband, and children, who are learning new ways to love and support me.
Oh, and I think I am learning to talk to animals.
Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed,
for His compassions never fail.
They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.